{"id":39123,"date":"2021-09-01T11:24:05","date_gmt":"2021-09-01T11:24:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kercova.org\/?p=39123"},"modified":"2026-05-18T21:27:41","modified_gmt":"2026-05-18T19:27:41","slug":"theniet-me-te-bukura-per-veten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/?p=39123","title":{"rendered":"Th\u00ebniet m\u00eb t\u00eb Bukura p\u00ebr veten"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e lexuesve kemi vendosur t\u00eb sjellim sot nj\u00eb koleksion t\u00eb ndritsh\u00ebm prej men\u00e7uris\u00eb q\u00eb rrjedh prej shekujsh t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs Hindi.<br \/>\nN\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim t\u00eb leximit, si gjithnj\u00eb, ne do t\u00eb jemi aty, duke lexuar ato q\u00eb ju na thoni se p\u00eblqyet m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti prej th\u00ebnieve m\u00ebposht\u00eb:<br \/>\nPara se t\u2019i thuash di\u00e7ka dikujt, gjithmon\u00eb mendo se si do t\u00eb ndiheshe n\u00ebse dikush t\u00eb thoshte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur paqen, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb shk\u00ebpusni lidhjen tuaj me njer\u00ebzit, vendet dhe gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb krijojn\u00eb gjith\u00eb zhurm\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Kur nuk gjeni zgjidhje p\u00ebr nj\u00eb problem, ndoshta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb duhet zgjidhur, por m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb duhet pranuar.<\/p>\n<p>Buda citon dashurin\u00eb \u201cAi tha,\u201d Ka vet\u00ebm dy dit\u00eb n\u00eb vit q\u00eb asgj\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet.<br \/>\nNj\u00ebra quhet dje dhe tjetra quhet nes\u00ebr, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb sot \u00ebsht\u00eb dita e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashur, besuar, b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe kryesisht t\u00eb jetosh.<\/p>\n<p>Qet\u00ebsoni z\u00ebrin q\u00eb ju thot\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb shum\u00eb, dhe besoni se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment, kush jeni, ku jeni dhe ajo \u00e7far\u00eb po b\u00ebni \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme. Do t\u00eb arrini atje ku duhet t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb koh\u00ebn tuaj. Deri at\u00ebher\u00eb, merr frym\u00eb. Merrni frym\u00eb dhe jini t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm me veten dhe procesin tuaj. Ju po b\u00ebni m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn q\u00eb mundeni p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar dhe mbijetuar n\u00eb mes t\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjeve tuaja, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni nga vetja. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme.<\/p>\n<p>Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e bukur p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar nga uji: P\u00ebrshtateni veten n\u00eb \u00e7do situat\u00eb dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do form\u00eb. Por m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja. Gjeni m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn tuaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb rrjedhur. \u00c7do m\u00ebngjes ne rilindim. Ajo q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb sot \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n<p>Esht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb pushtosh veten sesa t\u00eb fitosh nj\u00eb mij\u00eb beteja.<br \/>\n\u00c7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ju shqet\u00ebson, gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju irriton \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuesi juaj.<br \/>\nT\u00eb fal, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dhurata ime p\u00ebr ty. T\u00eb eci p\u00ebrpara \u00ebsht\u00eb dhurata ime p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n<p>Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb jehon\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb d\u00ebrgoni, kthehet. At\u00eb q\u00eb mbillni, at\u00eb korrni. At\u00eb q\u00eb jep, e merr. Ajo q\u00eb shihni tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ekziston tek ju. Mos harroni, jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb jehon\u00eb. Gjithmon\u00eb kthehet tek ju.<br \/>\nN\u00ebse nuk gjeni ask\u00ebnd q\u00eb t\u2019ju mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn shpirt\u00ebrore, ecni vet\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Kur egoja vdes, shpirti zgjohet.<br \/>\nAjo q\u00eb mendoni, b\u00ebheni. At\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen, e t\u00ebrheq. At\u00eb q\u00eb imagjinoni, e krijoni.<br \/>\nMos e prish nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb re duke u ndalur tek e djeshmja. Lere te iki.<\/p>\n<p>Ndjenjat jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm vizitore. L\u00ebrini t\u00eb vijn\u00eb e t\u00eb ikin.<br \/>\nGjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb jemi \u00ebsht\u00eb rezultat i asaj q\u00eb kemi menduar. Mendja \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka. Ajo q\u00eb ne mendojm\u00eb b\u00ebhemi.<br \/>\nJepni, edhe n\u00ebse keni vet\u00ebm pak.<\/p>\n<p>Asgj\u00eb nuk largohet kurr\u00eb derisa t\u00eb na ket\u00eb m\u00ebsuar at\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dim\u00eb.<br \/>\nMos u hakmerr. L\u00ebreni q\u00eb karma t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pun\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>Pavar\u00ebsisht se sa i arsimuar, i talentuar, i pasur apo i ftoht\u00eb besoni se jeni, m\u00ebnyra se si i trajtoni njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit i tregon t\u00eb gjitha. Integriteti \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka.<br \/>\nNdoshta flutura \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmi se mund t\u00eb kalosh nj\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200bt\u00eb madhe dhe prap\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh di\u00e7ka e bukur.<\/p>\n<p>Si t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur: 1. Ngadal\u00ebso 2. Thuaj faleminderit 3.Buz\u00ebqesh 4. Merr frym\u00eb thell\u00eb 5. Komplimento dik\u00eb 6. Vler\u00ebso gj\u00ebrat e vogla 7. P\u00ebrqendrohu n\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshmen 8. Vini re tre gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat jeni mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Kthejeni plag\u00ebt tuaja n\u00eb urt\u00ebsi.<br \/>\nSekreti p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb gjat\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb: hani gjysm\u00ebn, ecni dyfish, qeshni trefish dhe dashuroni pa mas\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Mos u m\u00ebrzitni me njer\u00ebzit ose situatat, t\u00eb dy jan\u00eb t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm pa reagimin tuaj.<br \/>\nLumturia nuk do t\u00eb vij\u00eb kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb nuk arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb tashm\u00eb kan\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrndritja vjen kur nj\u00eb val\u00eb kupton se \u00ebsht\u00eb oqeani.<br \/>\nTi nuk ke nj\u00eb shpirt. Ti je nje shpirt. Ti ke nj\u00eb trup.<\/p>\n<p>36. Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.<br \/>\n36. Paqe. Nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend ku nuk ka zhurm\u00eb, telashe ose pun\u00eb t\u00eb palodhshme. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb mes t\u00eb atyre gj\u00ebrave dhe t\u00eb jesh ende i qet\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n<p>Dhimbja \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashmangshme. Vuajtja \u00ebsht\u00eb fakultative.<br \/>\nNdaloni p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb qet\u00ebsuar stuhin\u00eb. Qet\u00ebsohu ti, stuhia do t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Jini t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm. \u00c7do gj\u00eb vjen tek ju n\u00eb momentin e duhur.<br \/>\nKapaciteti yn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb paqe me nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr dhe me bot\u00ebn varet shum\u00eb nga aft\u00ebsia jon\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb paqe me veten.<\/p>\n<p>Budist\u00ebt thon\u00eb se n\u00ebse takoni dik\u00eb dhe zemra juaj rreh, duart tuaja dridhen, gjunj\u00ebt tuaj dob\u00ebsohen, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ai. Kur takoni \u2018shpirtin tuaj binjak\u2019 tuaj do t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb qet\u00eb. Asnj\u00eb ankth, asnj\u00eb agjitacion.<br \/>\nEgoja nuk e pranon kurr\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>Karma! Mendoni mendime t\u00eb mira, thoni gj\u00ebra t\u00eb mira, b\u00ebni mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. \u00c7do gj\u00eb kthehet.<br \/>\nBuda citon mbi dashurin\u00eb \u201cParaja mund t\u00eb blej\u00eb nj\u00eb banes\u00eb, por jo nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Me para mund t\u00eb blini nj\u00eb shtrat, por jo t\u00eb flini. Me para mund t\u00eb blini nj\u00eb or\u00eb, por jo koh\u00ebn. Me para mund t\u00eb blini nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr, por jo njohuri. Paraja mund t\u00eb blej\u00eb ushqim, por jo nj\u00eb oreks.<\/p>\n<p>Parat\u00eb mund t\u2019ju blejn\u00eb miq, por jo dashuri. Paraja mund t\u00eb blej\u00eb pozicion, por jo respekt. Paraja mund t\u00eb blej\u00eb gjak, por jo jet\u00eb. Paraja mund t\u00eb blej\u00eb sigurim, por jo siguri. Paraja mund t\u00eb blej\u00eb fen\u00eb, por jo shp\u00ebtimin.<\/p>\n<p>Pavar\u00ebsisht se sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kaluara, gjithmon\u00eb mund t\u00eb filloni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.<br \/>\nN\u00ebse ndizni nj\u00eb llamb\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, ajo gjithashtu do t\u00eb ndri\u00e7oj\u00eb rrug\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ebni mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Do t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb papritura.<br \/>\nBuda citon mbi lumturin\u00eb \u201cLumturia nuk varet nga ajo q\u00eb keni ose kush jeni; mb\u00ebshtetet vet\u00ebm n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb mendoni.<\/p>\n<p>Mos gjykoni asgj\u00eb, do t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb lumtur. Falni gjith\u00e7ka, do t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur. Duaj gjith\u00e7ka, do t\u00eb jesh m\u00eb i lumtur.<br \/>\nN\u00ebse doni t\u00eb fluturoni, hiqni dor\u00eb nga gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju r\u00ebndon.<\/p>\n<p>Asgj\u00eb nuk t\u00eb sjell paqe m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe sesa t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh pun\u00ebt tua.<br \/>\nShqet\u00ebsimi nuk i largon hallet e s\u00eb nes\u00ebrmes. Ajo heq paqen e sotme.<\/p>\n<p>Ju jetoni pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs n\u00eb kok\u00ebn tuaj. Sigurohuni q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vend i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb.<br \/>\nL\u00ebrini njer\u00ebzit t\u2019ju gjykojn\u00eb. L\u00ebrini ata t\u2019ju keqkuptojn\u00eb. L\u00ebrini t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb thashetheme p\u00ebr ju. Ajo q\u00eb ata mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ju nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi juaj. Mendimet e tyre nuk paguajn\u00eb faturat tuaja.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ju q\u00ebndroni t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuar ndaj dashuris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lir\u00eb n\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebsin\u00eb tuaj, dhe pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ose thon\u00eb \u2026 kurr\u00eb mos dyshoni n\u00eb vler\u00ebn tuaj ose bukurin\u00eb e s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs suaj. Ju vazhdoni t\u00eb shk\u00eblqeni dhe i lini urrejt\u00ebsit t\u00eb urrejn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Buda citon p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn: \u201c\u00c7do gj\u00eb sh\u00ebrohet. Trupi juaj sh\u00ebrohet. Zemra juaj sh\u00ebrohet. Mendja sh\u00ebrohet. Plag\u00ebt sh\u00ebrohen. Shpirti juaj riparon vetveten. Lumturia juaj do t\u00eb kthehet gjithmon\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>\/ms<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e lexuesve kemi vendosur t\u00eb sjellim sot nj\u00eb koleksion t\u00eb ndritsh\u00ebm prej men\u00e7uris\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":39124,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39123","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kuriozitete"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39123","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39123"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39123\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/39124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39123"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39123"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39123"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}