Robert Greene \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb autor amerikan i njohur p\u00ebr librat e tij mbi strategjin\u00eb, fuqin\u00eb dhe joshjen. Ai ka shkruar gjasht\u00eb bestseller nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar: 48 Ligjet e Fuqis\u00eb, Arti i Joshjes, 33 Strategjit\u00eb e Luft\u00ebs, Ligji i 50 -t\u00eb (me reperin 50 Cent), Mjesht\u00ebria, dhe Ligjet e Natyr\u00ebs Njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e lexuesve tan\u00eb kemi sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb koleksion t\u00eb th\u00ebnieve m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura t\u00eb shk\u00ebputura nga librat e autorit.
\nT\u00eb bindur se do t\u00eb gjeni di\u00e7ka t\u00eb dobishme n\u00eb secil\u00ebn prej tyre. Ne presim t\u00eb na thoni, n\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim t\u00eb leximit, cil\u00ebn prej th\u00ebnieve m\u00ebposht\u00eb p\u00eblqyet m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti.<\/p>\n
E ardhmja u p\u00ebrket atyre q\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja dhe i kombinojn\u00eb ato n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra krijuese.
\nKur i mburreni bot\u00ebs dhe krenoheni me talentet tuaja, ju natyrsh\u00ebm nxisni t\u00eb gjitha llojet e pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb, zilis\u00eb dhe manifestimeve t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb pasiguris\u00eb \u2026 nuk mund ta kaloni jet\u00ebn tuaj duke u shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr ndjenjat e vogla t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Thuaj gjithmon\u00eb m\u00eb pak se \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme. Kur p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebrshtypje te njer\u00ebzit me fjal\u00eb, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb thoni, aq m\u00eb e zakonshme do t\u00eb dukeni dhe aq m\u00eb pak n\u00eb kontroll. Edhe n\u00ebse po thoni di\u00e7ka banale, do t\u00eb duket origjinale n\u00ebse e b\u00ebni at\u00eb t\u00eb paqart\u00eb, t\u00eb hapur dhe t\u00eb ngjashme me sfinksin. Njer\u00ebzit e fuqish\u00ebm b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje dhe frik\u00ebsojn\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb pak. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb thuash, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb t\u00eb thuash marr\u00ebzi.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse nuk jeni t\u00eb sigurt p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kurs veprimi, mos e provoni. Dyshimet dhe hezitimet tuaja do t\u00eb infektojn\u00eb ekzekutimin tuaj. Druajtja \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrezikshme: M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb hysh me guxim. \u00c7do gabim q\u00eb b\u00ebni p\u00ebrmes guximit korrigjohet leht\u00ebsisht me m\u00eb shum\u00eb guxim. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb e admirojn\u00eb guximtarin; askush nuk i nderon t\u00eb ndrojturit.<\/p>\n
Shok\u00ebt mbaji p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri, pun\u00ebt b\u00ebji me t\u00eb aft\u00eb dhe kompetent\u00eb.
\nMos e lini reputacionin tuaj rast\u00ebsis\u00eb ose thashethemeve; \u00ebsht\u00eb vepra e artit e jet\u00ebs suaj, dhe ju duhet ta krijoni, ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni dhe ta shfaqni me kujdesin e nj\u00eb artisti.<\/p>\n
Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos u shfaq shum\u00eb e p\u00ebrkryer. T\u00eb dukesh m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e rrezikshme, por m\u00eb e rrezikshmja nga t\u00eb gjitha \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb dukesh se nuk ke gabime apo dob\u00ebsi. Zilia krijon armiq t\u00eb heshtur. \u00cbsht\u00eb men\u00e7uri t\u00eb shfaq\u00ebsh her\u00eb pas here defekte dhe t\u00eb pranosh vese t\u00eb pad\u00ebmshme, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shmang\u00ebsh zilin\u00eb dhe t\u00eb dukesh m\u00eb njer\u00ebzore dhe e afrueshme.<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb mendimtar\u00eb serioz\u00eb jan\u00eb mbrumur n\u00eb burgje, n\u00eb at\u00eb vend nuk ka asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u00eb mendosh.
\nPor gjuha e njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bish\u00eb q\u00eb pak mund ta zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb. Ajo tendoset vazhdimisht p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga kafazi i saj, dhe n\u00ebse nuk zbutet, do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet e eg\u00ebr dhe do t\u2019ju shkaktoj\u00eb pik\u00ebllim.<\/p>\n
Mendoni si t\u00eb doni, por silluni si t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. N\u00ebse b\u00ebni nj\u00eb shfaqje kund\u00ebr koh\u00ebs, duke rr\u00ebfyer idet\u00eb tuaja jokonvencionale dhe m\u00ebnyrat e pazakonta, njer\u00ebzit do t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se ju doni vet\u00ebm v\u00ebmendje dhe se i shikoni nga lart\u00ebsia. Ata do t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ju nd\u00ebshkuar sepse i b\u00ebni ata t\u00eb ndihen inferior. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e sigurt t\u00eb p\u00ebrzihesh dhe t\u00eb ushqesh nga pak t\u00eb zakonshmen e mir\u00eb. Ndani origjinalitetin tuaj vet\u00ebm me miqt\u00eb tolerant\u00eb dhe ata q\u00eb me siguri do t\u00eb vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb ve\u00e7antin\u00eb tuaj.<\/p>\n
Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos humbni koh\u00eb t\u00eb vlefshme ose paqe mendore, n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve \u2013 ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7mim shum\u00eb i lart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u paguar.
\nNuk ka asgj\u00eb m\u00eb deh\u00ebse se fitorja dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme.
\nGoditeni bariun dhe delet do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrndahen.<\/p>\n
Kuptoni: njer\u00ebzit do t\u2019ju sulmojn\u00eb vazhdimisht n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Nj\u00eb nga arm\u00ebt e tyre kryesore do t\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u2019ju shtyjn\u00eb t\u00eb keni dyshime p\u00ebr veten \u2013 vler\u00ebn tuaj, aft\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja, potencialin tuaj. Ata shpesh do ta maskojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb si opinionin e tyre objektiv, por gjithnj\u00eb ka nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim politik \u2013 ata duan t\u2019ju mbajn\u00eb posht\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Kur emocionet tona jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshira, ne shpesh kemi probleme t\u2019i shohim gj\u00ebrat ashtu si\u00e7 jan\u00eb.
\nAskush nuk do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb ose t\u2019ju jap\u00eb drejtim. N\u00eb fakt, shanset jan\u00eb kund\u00ebr jush.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrreth jush, vazhdimisht n\u00ebn t\u00ebrheqjen e emocioneve t\u00eb tyre, ndryshojn\u00eb idet\u00eb e tyre gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs ose or\u00ebs, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb disponimit t\u00eb tyre. Ju kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb supozoni se ajo q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit thon\u00eb ose b\u00ebjn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb caktuar \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb e d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme.<\/p>\n
Personi q\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i kontrolloj\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e tij tregon se nuk mund ta kontrolloj\u00eb veten dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i padenj\u00eb p\u00ebr respekt.
\nP\u00ebr\u00e7mojini drekat falas.
\nKoha q\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb mjesht\u00ebri varet nga intensiteti i p\u00ebrqendrimit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuar sesa maskat q\u00eb mbajn\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri.
\nP\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur sukses n\u00eb loj\u00ebn e pushtetit, duhet t\u00eb zot\u00ebroni emocionet tuaja. Por edhe n\u00ebse keni sukses t\u00eb arrini nj\u00eb vet\u00ebkontroll t\u00eb till\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb kontrolloni kurr\u00eb disponimin temperamentit t\u00eb atyre q\u00eb ju rrethojn\u00eb. Dhe kjo paraqet nj\u00eb rrezik t\u00eb madh.<\/p>\n
A nuk i shkat\u00ebrroj armiqt\u00eb e mi kur i b\u00ebj miq t\u00eb mijt\u00eb?
\nNj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje emocionale ndaj nj\u00eb situate \u00ebsht\u00eb pengesa m\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr pushtetin, nj\u00eb gabim q\u00eb do t\u2019ju kushtoj\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se \u00e7do k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi e p\u00ebrkohshme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb fitoni duke shprehur ndjenjat tuaja.<\/p>\n
Kur takoni nj\u00eb shpatar, nxirrni shpat\u00ebn: Mos i recitoni poezi atij q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb poet.
\nAi q\u00eb hiqet si budalla nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb budalla.<\/p>\n
Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos u hutoni nga portretet josh\u00ebs t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebr veten dhe jet\u00ebn e tyre; k\u00ebrkoni dhe g\u00ebrmoni p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i burgos ata.
\nMos i luftoni ata. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj mendoni p\u00ebr ta ashtu si\u00e7 mendoni p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ose kafsh\u00ebt sht\u00ebpiake, jo aq t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sa t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb ekuilibrin tuaj mendor.<\/p>\n
B\u00ebhuni ai q\u00eb jeni duke m\u00ebsuar se kush jeni.
\nGjuha e njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bish\u00eb q\u00eb pakkush mund ta zot\u00ebroj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Frika juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj burgu q\u00eb ju kufizon brenda nj\u00eb game t\u00eb caktuar veprimesh. Sa m\u00eb pak t\u00eb kesh frik\u00eb, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb fuqi do t\u00eb kesh dhe aq m\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht do t\u00eb jetosh.<\/p>\n
Esht\u00eb n\u00eb fakt kulmi i egoizmit t\u00eb konsumosh thjesht at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt krijojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb guask\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebllimeve t\u00eb kufizuara dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsive t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme.<\/p>\n
Ka shum\u00eb pak mister n\u00eb bot\u00eb; shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz thon\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht at\u00eb q\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb ose duan.
\nBudallenjt\u00eb thon\u00eb se ata m\u00ebsojn\u00eb me p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn. Un\u00eb preferoj t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoj nga p\u00ebrvoja e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.
\nAsgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e q\u00ebndrueshme n\u00eb sfer\u00ebn e pushtetit, dhe madje edhe miqt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb mund t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohen n\u00eb armiqt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqij.<\/p>\n
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