{"id":130382,"date":"2026-05-06T15:52:34","date_gmt":"2026-05-06T13:52:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/?p=130382"},"modified":"2026-05-06T15:52:34","modified_gmt":"2026-05-06T13:52:34","slug":"te-lindesh-i-varfer-nuk-eshte-faji-yt-por-te-vdesish-i-varfer-po","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/?p=130382","title":{"rendered":"T\u00eb lind\u00ebsh i varf\u00ebr nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji yt. Por t\u00eb vdesish i varf\u00ebr, po?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Njeriu nuk zgjedh ku hap syt\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Nuk zgjedh sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ku lind, sofr\u00ebn ku ulet apo mungesat q\u00eb i num\u00ebrohen q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri. Disa lindin mes boll\u00ebkut, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb mes nevoj\u00ebs. Dhe kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi, por realiteti i bot\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Por jeta nuk matet vet\u00ebm me at\u00eb q\u00eb na \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb. Ajo matet edhe me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ecim p\u00ebrmes err\u00ebsir\u00ebs, me forc\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos mbetur peng i fatit dhe me guximin p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar rrug\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Varf\u00ebria nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm munges\u00eb parash. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb munges\u00eb vizioni, munges\u00eb guximi, dor\u00ebzim para frik\u00ebs apo pajtim me mediokritetin. Ka njer\u00ebz me xhepa bosh, por me shpirt t\u00eb pasur. Dhe ka t\u00eb tjer\u00eb me pasuri t\u00eb madhe, por t\u00eb varf\u00ebr n\u00eb mendje e n\u00eb zem\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>Prandaj pyetja mbetet e r\u00ebnd\u00eb dhe filozofike nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht: a \u00ebsht\u00eb varf\u00ebria fundi i fatit ton\u00eb, apo vet\u00ebm pika nga ku fillon lufta jon\u00eb?<br \/>\nSepse ndoshta njeriu nuk gjykohet nga m\u00ebnyra si lindi, por nga m\u00ebnyra si vendosi t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>\/ms<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Njeriu nuk zgjedh ku hap syt\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Nuk zgjedh sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ku lind,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":92127,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-130382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kuriozitete"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/130382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=130382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/130382\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/92127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=130382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=130382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kercova.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=130382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}