I shtr\u00ebnguar nga dhimbja e thell\u00eb p\u00ebr humbjen tragjike t\u00eb dy vajzave tona, si gazetar dhe si qytetar i K\u00ebr\u00e7ov\u00ebs, ndihem i detyruar t\u00eb flas, ti jap z\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dhimbje e dhjetra tjerave humbje q\u00eb kan\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas tragjedit e ngjashme. Humbjet e shpeshta t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb rinjve tan\u00eb n\u00eb trafik gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb fundit, na e kan\u00eb kthyer jet\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb ankth t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
\u00c7do dalje jasht\u00eb, \u00e7do udh\u00ebtim, \u00e7do kthim derisa vijn f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbushur me pasiguri dhe frik\u00eb. K\u00ebto tragjedi nuk po ndodhin nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb vite, por po p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb dhimbshme e periodike. Shpesh nuk kalon as nj\u00eb vit i plot\u00eb, e ne s\u00ebrish p\u00ebrballemi me lajmin e hidhur se nj\u00eb jet\u00eb e re \u00ebsht\u00eb shuar n\u00eb rrug\u00ebt tona.<\/p>\n
Megjithat\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb na shqet\u00ebsoj m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrball k\u00ebtij fenomeni \u00ebsht\u00eb heshtja jon\u00eb. Ku sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb kemi heshtur ndaj k\u00ebsaj plage, sikur ju kemi hap\u00eb rrug\u00eb tragjedive t\u00eb reja.<\/p>\n
E sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb do heshtim p\u00ebrball fenomeneve p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat duhet t\u00eb ngrejm z\u00ebrin, kam frik\u00ebn se edhe m\u00eb shpesh do t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten ngjarje t\u00eb hidhura. Andaj edhe vendosa t\u00eb flas me britma q\u00eb dalin nga zemra e nj\u00eb prindi q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke rritur f\u00ebmij\u00eb. E, q\u00eb po p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb dhimbjen e thell prind\u00ebrore nga k\u00ebto ngjarje q\u00eb na humbin sensin e jet\u00ebs p\u00ebr ta jetuar. Pra, sot nuk shkruaj vet\u00ebm si gazetar, por si nj\u00eb prind. Si nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb e di sa e brisht\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije dhe sa e r\u00ebnd\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb dhimbja e ikjes s\u00eb tyre nga jeta jon\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Humbja e Albin\u00ebs dhe Erion\u00ebs, dy vajzave t\u00eb reja, nx\u00ebn\u00ebse t\u00eb gjimnazit \u201cDrita\u201d n\u00eb K\u00ebr\u00e7ov\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb plag\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb dhemb edhe mua, edhe ty dhe \u00e7do prindi q\u00eb i lexon k\u00ebto vargje. Ku, n\u00eb qytetin ton\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, statistikat p\u00ebr humbjen e jet\u00ebve nga t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb n\u00eb aksidente, gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb fundit jan\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb shifra t\u00eb frikshme. Prandaj sot, kur dy vajza t\u00eb tjera nuk do t\u00eb kthehen m\u00eb n\u00eb bankat e shkoll\u00ebs, ndjej se \u00e7do heshtje nga ne t\u00eb rriturit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb munges\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie ndaj brezit q\u00eb po rritet.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, si prind pyes veten dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb juve, p\u00ebrse heshtim n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti gjat\u00eb stin\u00ebs s\u00eb ver\u00ebs dhe lejojm\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt 10 apo 12 vje\u00e7 t\u00eb drejtojn\u00eb motorra, trotineta elektrik e makina t\u00eb ndryshme, ku vet\u00ebm ajo q\u00eb quhet mrekulli nuk kthen \u00e7do aksident n\u00eb tragjedi. Q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, ne si familjar\u00eb shpesh ndoshta pa e ditur edhe prindrit gabojm\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb kur n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb u japim f\u00ebmij\u00ebve mjete t\u00eb rrezikshme n\u00eb duart e tyre t\u00eb brishta. Ku, duke ju dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb liri t\u00eb shfrenuar, p\u00ebrfundojm\u00eb duke rrezikuar jet\u00ebn e m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00ebve tan\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb bot\u00ebn e qytet\u00ebruar, kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e paimagjinueshme. Atje ligji mbron jet\u00ebn dhe nd\u00ebrgjegjja shoq\u00ebrore nuk e toleron pakujdesin\u00eb. Prandaj, le t\u00eb mos mjaftohemi me lot e heshtje. Le ta kthejm dhimbjen ton\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb z\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb. M\u00eb 1 shtator 2025, dit\u00ebn kur fillon shkolla dhe kur n\u00eb bankat e gjimnazit do t\u00eb mungojn\u00eb Albina dhe Eriona, si n\u00eb \u00e7do vend t\u00eb civilizuar, do kisha d\u00ebshiruar q\u00eb t\u00eb shoh shoqet e tyre, shok\u00ebt, m\u00ebsues\u00ebt, prind\u00ebrit dhe gjith\u00eb qytetin n\u00eb nj\u00eb marsh homazhi. Me lule n\u00eb duar, le t\u00eb ecim p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: Mjaft m\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Jeta e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb loj\u00eb! Akt i cili nuk do ishte vet\u00ebm shprehje e dhimbjes p\u00ebr humbjen e Albin\u00ebs dhe Erion\u00ebs. Por do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb marsh p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha ato jet\u00eb rinore t\u00eb humbura n\u00eb k\u00ebto vite n\u00eb aksidente dhe nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsim p\u00ebr \u00e7do f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb ende rritet mes nesh. P\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se ne prind\u00ebrit, nuk do t\u00eb heshtim m\u00eb. Se ne qytetar\u00ebt, nuk do t\u00eb tolerojm\u00eb m\u00eb. Se shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n
Prandaj, si prind ju b\u00ebj thirrje institucioneve arsimore q\u00eb t\u00eb organizojn\u00eb or\u00eb t\u00eb posa\u00e7me me nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, ku t\u00eb flitet se “arg\u00ebtimi” me motorra, trotineta e duke konsumuar shisha e l\u00ebnd\u00eb tjera t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin, ju sjellin rreziqe p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e tyre. Pra, edukimi i hersh\u00ebm mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb parandaloj\u00eb pasoja t\u00eb r\u00ebnda. Policis\u00eb t\u00eb kontrolloni lokalet ku q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb dhe trafikun n\u00eb komunikacion. E t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkoni me d\u00ebnimin maksimal shkel\u00ebsit e rregullave. E jo ti falni, toleranca t\u00eb cilat pastaj na kthehen n\u00eb tragjedi.<\/p>\n
Mediave dhe sektorit civil, pjes\u00eb e t\u00eb cil\u00ebs jam\u00eb edhe un\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb ngrejm z\u00ebrin dhe mos lejojm q\u00eb fenomenet q\u00eb na sjellin tragjedi t\u00eb heshten. Ju lus, me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar, q\u00eb rrjeshtat e k\u00ebtij artikulli merrni si britma q\u00eb vijn nga z\u00ebri i nj\u00eb prindi. \u00cbsht\u00eb lutja ime si njeri, \u00ebsht\u00eb thirrja ime p\u00ebr ty q\u00eb m\u00eb lexon. Sepse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr siguri, p\u00ebr kujdes dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme me perspektiv. Ku p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb, q\u00eb ambiciet e tyre ti kthejm n\u00eb realitet e jo n\u00eb arkivole. Sepse \u00e7do jet\u00eb e humbur \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e shuar, nj\u00eb familje e shkat\u00ebrruar e nj\u00eb qytet i mbuluar nga zija.<\/p>\n
S\u00eb fundi, me ndjenj\u00ebn prindrore q\u00eb buron nga thell\u00ebsia e shpirtit t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar, dua t\u00eb theksoj se p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia p\u00ebr fenomenin e aksidenteve \u00ebsht\u00eb e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve si shoq\u00ebri dhe jo vet\u00ebm e prind\u00ebrve. Ndryshe nga shum\u00eb ngjarje t\u00eb hidhura q\u00eb ndodhin n\u00eb magjistrale p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb shpejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, Albina dhe Eriona nuk e humb\u00ebn jet\u00ebn n\u00eb aksident, por n\u00eb nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn lokale t\u00eb fshatit Kolibar.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb vend ku l\u00ebvizja me shpejt\u00ebsi as nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur. Por, q\u00eb fati kob\u00ebzi gjeti rrug\u00ebn e saj tragjike p\u00ebr to, duke l\u00ebn\u00eb pas nj\u00eb dhimbje t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme, q\u00eb ka l\u00ebnduar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb K\u00ebr\u00e7ov\u00ebn. N\u00eb k\u00ebto \u00e7aste, \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb se dhimbja e thell\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e Albin\u00ebs dhe Erjon\u00ebs, se rrall\u00eb fjal\u00eb mund t\u00eb leht\u00ebsoj\u00eb pesh\u00ebn e humbjes t\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjtave t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Andaj, m\u00eb mbetet vet\u00ebm t\u00eb lutem q\u00eb shpirti i vajzave t\u00eb dashura t\u00eb gjej\u00eb paqe n\u00eb parajs\u00eb, dhe q\u00eb Zoti t\u2019ju jap\u00eb forc\u00eb dhe durim familjeve p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar k\u00ebt\u00eb humbje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dhimbje q\u00eb e ndjejm\u00eb thell\u00ebsisht t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Me shpirt t\u00eb p\u00ebrulur dhe me pik\u00ebllim t\u00eb thell\u00eb, ju ngush\u00ebllon si v\u00ebllau juaj, Bekim Adili\ud83d\ude4f\ud83e\udd32\ud83d\ude4f<\/p>\n
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